'Enjoy your [new] drama-free life': Entitled sister quits the job her sister got her after only 2 days, sister cuts her from her life and blocks her from getting her W2 tax forms

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    "I got her a job where I work, I drove her back and forth to the interview, to work and back, only for her to quit TWO days later."
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    I didn't respond to my sister text asking for her important tax forms. She dead to me.
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    So, my sister (34) moved to the state I'm in due to her getting evicted with her 3 children in May 2023 leaving behind her boyfriend and then sending 2 of their children back to the state she left after a month of being here to be with the dad for the summer.
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    She made it seem like she wanted to come out here and get herself together. She moved in with our mother, she begged our mother to move in. She even asked me to talk to mom because when she got here she moved into a women and children shelter.
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    She didn't like the shelter. I tried building her up. When she first came I picked up her up from the airport, I gave her money to get some personal hygiene items she and her kids needed, drove her around to places she needed to go, invited her out with my
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    family and I, let her stay at my home in the day, etc. I got her job where I work because she always complained to me about living with our mom and how she doesn't like living there, mom is toxic and so on and I told her
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    well the only way she can get environment is for her out that to find a job to make money to get another apartment/house. I got her a job where I work, I drove her back and forth to the interview, to work and back only for her to quit two days later.
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    It's about a 38 mins drive one way. She made every excuse on why she decided to quit. November 2023 she left to go back to the state she left. She didn't tell me she was leaving.
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    All I know is her boyfriend and her finally got approved for low income housing out there after being on the wait list for long so she isn't coming back out here. I felt so used.
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    She then temporarily left her oldest son, my nephew with our mother for a month without asking - my nephew called his mother saying that my mother wasn't feeding him which wasn't true. My sister texted me cursing me out, disrespecting me to fullest when at the time
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    she texted I didn't even know what was going on. She talked to me as if I didn't ever try to help her or be there for her during her times of difficulties. During those messages I told her that she is dead to me, our
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    relationship would never be the same. I want nothing to do with her anymore as this isn't her first time but it's the first time it's been this extreme. After a while she apologized for her behavior saying she isn't that type of person and so on. I
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    told her it's all good. (It doesn't change my decision of choosing not to have a close relationship with her, ever again) We haven't talked since early December 2023. She texted me a couple days ago asking for the phone number to my employer for her W2 because she hasn't received it yet and needs it.
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    Remind you she only worked at this job for two days. I didn't respond to her and started to block her number as I don't want nothing to do with her.
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    Wielder OfAphorisms. 1 day ago Enjoy your drama free life.
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    Thermitegrenade. 1 day ago If she is dead to you, block her number. If it's "all good" just send her the info she wanted or teach her to use Google.
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    jgarmartner 1 day ago ● The employer has until the end of the month to send her W2. She can wait.
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    Interesting_Sock9142. 1 day ago Google is hard!!!! hit she probably doesn't even remember the name of the company seeing as how she worked there for 2 freaking days and then quit.
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    Short Economy_6690 1 day ago ● Had some similar things happen between me and my sister all you are missing is false allegations of a secual nature. Cut her off 3 years ago not a word spoken to each other since and apparently it is
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    Hling her but she made her own bed and I am so much happier without her in my life. All this to say I'm proud of you, cutting family off can be hard but sometimes it's necessary for our own growth.
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    broadsharp 1 day ago Good for you, OP I have three sisters. After years of constant ridiculous drama, I haven't spoken to two of them for 8 years now. One of the Best decisions I ever made. One is sane and actually a good person.
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    Feisty Tonight_8459 1 day ago I had a similar situation 8 years ago. Since then I have only been in a room with my mother's other daughter when it's been a big birthday for my grandparents or a funeral. But I
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    don't speak a word to her and I think she knows better than to try and speak to me. You have to do what is right for you. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm. It only ends in you getting burnt.
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    lev237 23 hr. ago ● I feel you, man. I have an older sister (39), and she's been dead to me since 2011, when she stole part of my college fund (around 10K, I'm not from U.S). She always was a hitty sister, but that incident killed any hope for a good relationship between us.
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    InteractionNo9110 20 hr. ago She's looking for a foot back in with you. Probably things are going bad for the baby daddy and she may need to bounce. She made her bed, let her lie in it. I just feel bad for the kids who have to be dragged around all this chaos.
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    Afraid Sense5363 16 hr. ago ● She texted me a couple days ago asking for the phone number to my employer for her W2 Google doesn't exist where she lives? Block her. She's an ungrateful mess.
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    Fenix00726 23 hr. ago ● You are doing great! For you sanity stay very far from her.

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